Common Sense Guidelines for Swingers

Common Sense Guidelines for Swingers:

• Discretion – In most cases, discretion is key to participation in the Swinging Lifestyle. In many instances, you will find Swingers who choose to go by their Nickname or “Handle”, rather than their first names. Be cautious when asking about personal information while talking with any Swingers. Sometimes it is improper and impolite. Let the other person volunteer information first. Also, remember that what happens at any event/club STAYS at that event/club, or amongst other Swingers.

• Drugs and Smoking – While most Swingers are drug-free, there may be a relative few who do drugs to varying degrees. It is wise to refrain and be respectful of others. As for smoking, it is always best to ask others around you first if you may smoke.

• Manners – When involved in sexual activity, you need to remember five things:

o    Respect the boundaries and wishes of any individual;
o    Never assume what any person, couple, or group enjoys or desires;
o    Always ask permission before touching, watching, or joining an activity;
o    No means No.  If someone says, “No,” move on and don’t take it personally;
o    ALWAYS communicate your wishes and desires before engaging in any activity.

• Debates/Arguments/Fighting – The primary reason swingers attend swinging events/clubs is to relax and have a good time. The last thing anyone wants to do is watch a fight or argument. It is always best to keep your temper, and take any issues that need to be discussed away from the view of others.

• Keep Negative Emotions in check – There may be times when someone else may anger or upset you, or when something may happen that may trigger Jealousy or another negative emotion. If this occurs, just leave the activity and walk away. Give yourself time to cool down and think and act rationally.

• Consider your actions – Just remember that we all must take responsibility for our actions. There may be times where you may lose control of yourself in the excitement of a particular activity and do something that you may later regret. Always consider your actions carefully before proceeding.

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