Single Women in Swinging
September 15, 2009 by Couples Click
SINGLE WOMEN IN SWINGING
This is a tough subject for me to address since I happen to be one of the few women in the lifestyle who actually prefers men. Additionally, I have seen far too often men who coax their wives into the lifestyle under the pretense that it would be hot to watch two women together when the reality is he wants to have two women but heaven forbid she wants two men! Shame on those guys!
But since the single woman is a hot commodity in the swinging lifestyle I thought is was only fair to include information on them.
A strong fantasy of most men (swingers or straight) is to have sex with two women at the same time. Likewise many women have a curiosity about experiencing another woman.
Finding the elusive “single female” is another challenge all together! Honestly in our six years in the lifestyle we have only been with a single female twice. Partly because it’s not our preference and partly because it’s extremely difficult to find a single female who actually understands the lifestyle.
On each of these two occasions however we found “her” at a local strip club! Another suggestion is to go to nightclub / danceclub, strike up a conversation with a single female, and see if she is agreeable in getting together with the two of you.
A couple of cautions regarding the single female:
1) Although this is a gross generalization it is something my husband and I have perceived more often than not and therefore thought we should share. Single women tend to look at a man from this perspective: “what are the possibilities long term?” While this is great from single female to single male it is not a thought you want to invite into your marriage. We have seen, on more than one occasion, the single female cause significant problems within a marriage. The husband feels euphoric because someone else is showing him interest and the single female becomes competitive with the wife. If you’re honest you know this… women are extremely competitive with each other.
2) Husbands, be forewarned. If you are trying to pressure your wife into being with another woman so that you can fulfill your fantasy of being with two women you could be in for a rude awakening and damaging the marriage. First of all women are not ignorant and we already know your motives. If they are pure… we will know it and love you for it. If they are not… we will know it and begin to resent you for it.
Final Thoughts: If motives are pure and each person is on the same page then a threesome or girl/girl play with a single female can be a great deal of fun! Although our experiences have been limited, they have been a great deal of fun!
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