Types of Swinging
February 10, 2009 by Couples Click
Common Types of Swinging:
Soft swinging:
Foreplay with other partners, sometimes including oral sex but no vaginal penetration. Can add spice to a couple’s relationship and allow them to have fun without the risk of disease or jealousy. Many couples start out as soft swingers as they first explore swinging. But don’t think that soft swingers will always convert to full swapping.
Closed swinging:
Partners swap, but have sex in separate rooms. Closed swinging allows for a more intimate experience. Some people feel it allows them more freedom to explore and fewer interruptions of their enjoyment.
Open swinging:
Partners swap and have sex in the same room, or bed. This includes orgies and is great for exhibitionists and voyeurs, who can show off or just enjoy watching their partner play. Some people find open swinging allows for total release of the sexual desires and fantasies. It is not for the jealous or the shy!
How to Choose:
Neither style is right or wrong, it is just a matter of whatever is preferable to each couple. A complication can arise when couples are attracted to each other and one couple prefers open, one couple prefers closed and one is a soft swing couple. In this case, either the couples must compromise or decide to seek other more compatible partners.
Each couple has the right to choose the style of swinging that is right for them. Some want open and will only swing together and some will only swing closed and soft swingers generally don’t allow anything else. However most swingers are willing to compromise and work around another couple’s choices. If what you and the other couple want coincides, that’s terrific! If not and a compromise can’t be reached, keep looking for a match. We would suggest that you never make an iron clad rule about not doing one or the other and that you at least give it a try before discounting something you’ve never tried before – it might have some superb benefits
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