An Interview With Swingers

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So, tell us about your swinging lifestyle. How long have you been swingers?

GIRL: Well, it was really early, actually.

GUY: Yeah, I don’t think we were dating more than three months before we had a threesome. And even then, it wasn’t awkward. We brought up the idea kind of as a joke, but we were both really into it. And we’ve been swinging ever since.

Swinging is such a different type of relationship than most have. Why did you guys choose to make swinging a part of your sex life?

GIRL: We’re not really strict swingers. We’re more like a really horny couple who invites and pursues other people into the bedroom. We love sex, and we love lots of it. It’s like live porn, and I get to star in it. It’s so exciting because I really enjoy watching people have sex, and I love being there to watch it live. I have fun trying out new techniques on people and seeing what it takes to make someone come. It’s my favorite hobby!

GUY: I figure you get to try new things with different people. Having sex with other people is fun. It kind of combines the nice things of a steady relationship with the nice things of an erotic fling. You have someone who is your best friend and a good lover, and then you have someone who is a new and different lover. And that’s exciting. You get the excitement of a lover who you know and then the thrill of a fling. It’s the best of both worlds if you do it right.

What is your relationship like?

GIRL: Our relationship is like…have you seen “Girls Next Door”? I mean, we’re like Holly and Hef minus the money and fame. We love each other, and he’s my number one lover. We have number twos and number threes, and we play around with other couples, but he’s my favorite. He’s the one who knows how to make me feel the best. No matter whose bed we’ve spent the night in or whose cock I’ve sucked, at the end of the day, we just want each other.

GUY: Yeah, just because you’re in a relationship with someone doesn’t mean you can’t have other friends. She’s my best friend in bed and out of bed. It can still be fun to have conversations with other people. If you have a relaxed attitude about sex, it’s really no different having sex with other people than having other friends.

So you can cheat anytime you want, and it’s okay?

GUY: No, it’s not okay. We have to discuss it first. You have to be okay with the person, time and place. You don’t want to keep secrets about this kind of thing.

GIRL: Yeah, and for the most part our swinging depends on the other partner being there. We’re in this together, you know? I think he’s sexy, and I love to see him giving other people pleasure. It’s hot. But, I mean, there are exceptions. There are two people that he’s okay with, and I can play alone with them. It’s not cheating because he knows about it, and he gets excited about it.

GUY: Yeah, and if there were girls that she was okay with, I’d have the same sort of deal. It’s not that she isn’t cool with it; she’s always asking if I have any prospects. It’s just that I’m pretty shy.

How often do you swing?

GUY: Uh…I don’t know, about once a month. Kind of hard to plan it. It usually just sort of happens.

GIRL: Yeah, but I don’t think it happens enough. We have so much fun, and the sex we have just the two of us after it is amazing.

What happens if you disagree about who to swing with?

GUY: Well, we haven’t really had that problem yet, but you have to keep communication honest about this sort of thing. If one person is feeling jealous, you definitely need to address it. You have to be willing not to sleep with someone. It’s not like anything goes. We obviously still care about each other and don’t want to hurt the other.

GIRL: He’s still my boyfriend, and I care about him more than I do about a certain lay. Yeah, it’d be great to have sex with someone new, but not at the cost of hurting my boyfriend! He always beats out other guys.

What do you do about STDs?

GIRL: Condoms! And testing regularly.You can’t be stupid about this. No strangers!

GUY: We’re always safe with other people. We made that a rule. We try to do it with people we trust only.

Do you have a particular type?

GUY: A type of girl? I don’t know. I guess, I mean, there are girls that I think are cute and get crushes on. I don’t think I can reduce it to a single type. I like short, petite girls who are fun, adventurous and like to laugh. You have to have a sense of humor about sex, and so I like girls who have a sense of humor.

GIRL: I’m much more picky than he is. I have a lot of quirks. I need a guy who has a sexy voice. I need a guy with a really nice body, preferably abs. I need a guy who I can be friends with, too. It’s more than just a night of pleasure. He’s gotta be my friend, and hopefully, my boyfriend’s friend, too.

Where do you find other couples to swing with?

GUY: Amongst friends. You know, you talk about sex and it just sort of comes up. Sometimes among people we’re just meeting, you know, new friends. That works well because you aren’t jeopardizing an old friendship over sex.

GIRL: For a while we had profiles on swingers Web sites, but that just got creepy. People on those sites are lonely and unattractive. And usually unreliable. Once we had success with some of our friends, we abandoned the Internet in exchange for our Clemson circle of friends.

How long do you plan on having this sort of relationship?

GUY: As long as we can attract fun, attractive people.

GIRL: Totally.

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